Women’s brains are built differently than men’s. Men compartmentalize things. Women are all bundled up with facts and emotions and feelings. Consequently, it’s different for women to come to clean cut conclusions about matters that seem easy and obvious to a man.
I’ve learned that it helps tremendously to take sentiment out of the mix, and remove personalities as well, and just view the issue without all those highly charged aspects. Sentiment has it’s place, but too often it gets in the way.