I’ve made the mystery of relationships my life study. This is one of the best tools I’ve come across in navigating through an argument. The trick is to REMEMBER to use it. First and foremost, LISTEN! 1/ Say, ” Here’s what I hear you saying.” 2/ Say, “Here’s how I interpret what you’re saying.” 3/ Say, “Here’s how I feel about what you’re saying.” This is a great step forward from just going at each other with a lot of verbal abuse.
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